Introducing… Family Trip Guides for the Smithsonian Museums!

I’m excited to introduce a project been working hard at a new project over at!

Last summer, I attempted to take my 2 kiddos into DC and visit all 12 Smithsonian main Museums (and 1 Zoo!) We made a passing grade after some summer colds got in the way 🙂 After the first couple of museum visits, friends asked me to write up some tips I found for navigating the crowds, parking, food and most importantly how to survive a museum visit with kids!

These museums are national treasures but they can certainly be overwhelming.  So I put together all my tips and tricks for beating the crowds into Guides for each of the museums.

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My hope is that these Guides save moms, dads, grandparents, camp directors and teachers TIME, $$ and most importantly…their Sanity!

I’ve had some Mom beta users and here’s what one has to say: “These guides are lifesavers! The Smithsonian museums have so much to offer that it can be easy to get swallowed up in the all the exhibits. These guides help me focus my visits on the parts of the museum that have the biggest impact on my kids. I especially love the “Mom Tips” – I’ve been visiting Smithsonian museums for years and didn’t know half of them! – Elle, Mom of 4

Each Museum has its own Guide which includes:

  1. ALL you need to know before you visit: Hours and how to beat the crowds, Transportation and best parking ideasfor each museum (street and garage), 3-4 Food options other than the expensive museum food!
  2. Specialized Tips for Each Age Groups: Visiting a museum with teens is VERY different than with toddlers! Each Museum Kids Guide is organized into a page for each 1. Babies and Toddlers, 2. Elementary Age, 3. Teens.
  3. Focus on Top 3 Can’t Miss Exhibits for each age group, Skip This recommendations if you are running out of time and Gift Shop Alternatives.

I hope you check out the Guides here at! I have a special 20% discount for this month with the discount code: launch20

I’d love to hear from you about your experiences at museums with kids! I’m on Instagram at MulticulturalMama and will be blogging more soon at

Happy Exploring!



My 5 Favorite Things about Mid-Autumn Festival

Tomorrow night is one of my favorite Chinese celebrations, Mid-Autumn Festival (中秋節,  Zhōngqiū Jié) We celebrated over the weekend by inviting neighbors and friends over to our front yard for mooncakes, tea, a mini lantern parade and watching the beautiful new moon.

It’s a wonderful tradition that our family loves and below are the top 5 reasons why!

  1. Being outside in the evening with friends and neighbors: There’s just something magical when we string the bistro lights over the driveway, turn on candles and hang lanterns everywhere. This year it was a lovely 60 F here outside DC (although last year it was a sweaty 85!) so being with friends in the night air was lovely.

mid-autumn.jpg2. Relaxed Celebration: Our family is pretty relaxed when it comes to traditions for Mid-Autumn and that makes it such a wonderful time for all! We have lanterns, pomelos, mooncakes and tea and the moon. Not too much prep (although next year’s goal is to try to make our own mooncakes!) and not too much stress. Which brings me to…wr.png3. Mooncakes and tea! The perfect combination especially for eating outside. This year I had my first green tea filled mooncakes which were ok but I prefer the traditional red bean, or even better, egg yolk filling! We had around 25 people over to our house this year and all 3 tins of mooncakes were gone so I would say they were a hit even for those who might not be used to red bean desserts!12042608_864800218148_6737310925435934987_n4. Mid-Autumn brings up wonderful memories: My first Mid-Autumn was actually at a Chinese Church where I would later meet my husband. My friends were excited for me to try my first mooncake and I was excited too because the filling looked like chocolate. When I took a bite, I have to admit I think I excused myself to spit it out! I had no idea it was red bean filling! I’ve grown to love them now but it took a while! Another incredible memory was a few years ago when we lived in Taiwan and my daughter was 2 years old, my husband’s extended family took us on a weekend getaway to Yangmingshan mountain outside of Taipei for Mid-Autumn. The moon was beautiful and we talked and laughed outside! One tradition is to remove the inside of a pomelo (a huge green fruit like a grapefruit) and put it on a babies head. I wish I could find the picture of our auntie putting one on my daughter!


  1. Finally, it’s a wonderful time to celebrate and share our family’s unique cultural identity as a Chinese American family. My daughter asks for weeks about when the “Mooncake Festival” will happen (priorities!) and helps me pick out the lanterns for our friends. She loves going door to door in our neighborhood and inviting neighbors. It’s just a wonderful time to celebrate being a Chinese American family and I hope we get to continue for years to come!




Celebrating a 100 Day Birthday!

This series has taken a little bit of a hiatus but I am excited to get back to it! Today, I wanted to share with you all about a special day where we celebrate our family’s Chinese American heritage — our children’s 100 Day Celebration! It’s sometimes celebrated at the one month mark and I’ve also heard it called a Red Egg and Ginger Party. Read more to learn why!


During ancient times when unfortunately infant mortality was high, families delayed naming their children and then celebrated their survival after a month or three months. The tradition continues today and its a way for parents to introduce the baby to family and friends.

For my daughter 4 years ago and my son 1 year ago, we drove up from Virginia to New York City where my husband’s family lives. We had a delicious meal at a big Chinese restaurant where all the aunties and uncles could meet our children for the first time. My husband’s parents gave each child a new outfit and a tiny gold ring to symbolize long life and prosperity. At the restaurant, there were red eggs (symbolizing luck and unity) and pickled ginger which is good for after childbirth. If the baby is a boy there is an even number of eggs and if its a daughter its an odd number. Not sure why!


There has been a lot written about the tradition and if you are interested I’ll put the links below.

From a non-chinese mother’s perspective, there are lots of things I love about this tradition:

  1. It’s so fun to celebrate a baby 3 months into the their life! It’s not as stressful as taking a one month old to a restaurant and I love celebrating the child after they are born rather than a baby shower late in the pregnancy were I was often pretty uncomfortable.
  2. A 3 month old is much more alert (and smiley!) It’s a joyous occasion!
  3. You get to introduce your child to family all at once. While this can sometimes feel overwhelming, its wonderful to have the opportunity!

baby 100 day

To learn more:

  • Great website with lots of info on etiquette, customs etc.
  • Background on all of the special birthdays
  • Modern take on planning a 100 day party

My Biggest Misunderstanding as a Taiwan Xifu

(This is part 2 of 7 sharing how we try to #celebratecultures in our family’s daily life. Check here to see all posts in the series!)

One of the first questions my future in-laws asked me when we first met was “what kind of food do you like? What are your favorite vegetables?” They wanted to get to know me and my family through understanding our food. (Funny story: at that same first dinner, I was so proud of myself when I used chopsticks and successfully picked up a salted peanut in the middle of the table. Unfortunately, the second time I flung a peanut onto another table!)

I used to think that food was just one part of the puzzle to understand a culture. But the importance that my husband’s culture places on food goes deeper than just a part of their culture, food is a priority! It was really one of the biggest misunderstandings we had in the early part of our marriage. I’ve learned through some funny moments in our first year of marriage how important mealtimes are in the life of a Chinese family.

So I try to focus on being a good xifu/媳婦 daughter in law and learn new Chinese and Taiwanese dishes. I am thankful that it goes both ways too and my husband is an incredible cook! When I commuted into the city for work, my husband made most of the meals. Now that I’m at home with the kids, I’ve taken over most of the cooking on the weekdays.

Ways we Celebrate Mealtimes:

  1. Hot meals 3x a day if possible:  For the most part, it’s important to our family to have warm meals. There are definitely times when takeout and drive thrus are necessary! I am nowhere near my mother in law’s cooking as she used to cook short ribs for her children to take in their school lunches. And often “hot meal” is defined by leftovers from the day before. But we still want to prioritize mealtimes as important times during the day to gather together and not just rush past them.
  1. Kids are involved in making the food: I try to include my 4 year daughter in cooking during most meals. Right now that includes cleaning vegetables or peeling garlic cloves. It’s a win win because it keeps her busy while I cook! The best part is that when sit down to eat, she is so proud of the food she helped make and it helps her try new foods.
  1. Dumpling Date Nights: Since my family loves dumplings, I have a mini-goal of making a huge batch of homemade dumplings every month so we have a steady supply in our freezer. It’s pretty time intensive to fold each one but the excitement on all the faces of my husband, my 4-year-old daughter and even my 11-month-old son makes it worth it! My husband joined me on last Saturday night after the kids went to sleep and we made about 150 dumplings. We watched a show and laughed together — it actually turned into a really fun date night in! When we were done, my hubby said he just realized that his parents used to do the same thing. He has memories of his parents watching a Chinese drama while folding dumplings late into the night. So special to accidentally fall into this same tradition!
  1. Learning through Food: Our family loves lots of other cultures’ cuisines (favs right now include: Vietnamese, Korean, Mexican, Indian and Thai) so we try to talk a little bit about each culture with our daughter when we are eating. If we’re at home we look on a map to find the country. We are learning a couple of words in each language so when we go to a restaurant we can say at least hello and thank you in the language. So far we have 2/5 down…3 more to go!

What about your family? How do you celebrate your family’s culture(s) during mealtimes? Would love to hear more in the comments or over on Instagram!    



My mother-in-law and sister-in-law make incredible meals and I’m so thankful I get to learn from them (and eat their food!)



From Me to We: Ways we #CelebrateCultures… in our Home 

Being in a multicultural family takes a lot of humility. I’ve had lots of “face plant moments” over the last couple of years! I am thankful though for those moments because they usually teach me the most. 
While living in Taiwan, my 2 year old daughter and I joined my husband’s aunt at the local community hall during Chinese New Year. We met a remarkable 104 year old community elder (pictured here with my daughter and I) who volunteers every year to draw chūnlián 春联 for his neighbors. Chūnlián are long red pieces of paper used to decorate doorways and bring good fortune during the new year. Our aunt knew that I am a Christian and asked me what Christian phrase I would like the man to write for our door. I was surprised she asked because I was happy to have a traditional phrase. The only phrase that I could say in Chinese at the time was ‘Jesus loves me.’ Suddenly, my aunt and half a dozen Taiwanese people around us started to laugh! As politely as they could they told me that the phrase ‘Jesus loves me’ doesn’t make sense in the Chinese language. It would sound so weird and selfish. How can we think about a divine person loving one person? It should be “Jesus Loves US!” So that’s what the centenarian wrote in beautiful calligraphy on our red paper.

That piece of red paper is now one of my most treasured possessions because even though it was an embarrassing cross-cultural moment, it was a lightbulb for me in my understanding of Taiwanese/Chinese culture. I remember sometime in college learning that the basic unit in American culture is the individual but that for many other cultures the family (and some would say the extended family) is the basic unit. This moment in the community hall was a perfect example of this cultural value being revealed in language.

I grew up in a very loving and close family which encouraged me in my own individual passions and pursuits. When it came time to choose a major to study in college, I chose one myself without thinking about the effects on my family. I’ve since heard from friends who grew up with a more ‘family unit’ focus who sought input from their parents or at least weigh their decisions on the impact on their family.

Right now in my parenting journey (only 4 years in!), I don’t think one way is objectively better than the other. Hopefully a blessing of raising our kids in a multicultural family is that we can take the best from both worlds! We are currently living in the US which is driven by a pretty individualist perspective. So we want to balance this individualist mindset by teaching our children through words and actions that while we love them unconditionally, they are not the sole center of the family. I am learning to think of our family in terms of one unit, not four individual ones. I am learning to move from celebrating “me” to “we.”

Practically speaking, we’ve adopted two small ways from my husband’s childhood, for our young children to hopefully start to understand these concepts:

Big Sister, Little Brother 

I recently mentioned on instagram that instead of calling each other by their names, my daughter calls her brother dì dì 弟弟 meaning ‘little brother’ and my son (once he can speak!) will call his sister jiě jie 姐姐 meaning ‘big sister.’ I love how these are more than just cute nicknames. They also reveal cultural value of seeing oneself in relation to another. Also it shows a respect for elders inside the family as well as their unique responsibilities.

The Passing Game 

Another way we show our daughter the importance of our extended family is through the Passing Game. We ask my daughter to offer food to the eldest in the room first and then down the line in age. This requires a lot of patience for our 4 year old at first, especially when there’s 8 family members and cookies! But it’s a tangible way to encourage thinking of others above herself. My Sister in Law is amazing with children and always turns it into a game for my daughter. It’s usually a hilarious time around the table when my daughter has to guess how old everyone is. “Is Great Aunt older or younger than Baba?” My daughter loves offering the treat to everyone and squeals with glee when it’s finally her turn!

What about your family? Did you grow up with cultural values that are different from where you are currently living? Would love to hear about your multicultural experience in the comments!

(This is part 1 of 7 sharing how we try to #celebratecultures in our family’s daily life. Check here to see all posts in the series!)

Coming soon: Ways We #CelebrateCultures

Before kids, I thought “celebrating our heritage” would just mean observing Chinese New Year (him) and Sinterklaas Day (me). But now after having kids, I’ve realized that it’s not enough to celebrate a holiday once a year and expect my children to identify with that part of their heritage. And more importantly, it’s a GIFT that we have to learn and explore other cultures! Why not open that gift every day?!

So next week I’ll be starting a new series on Ways We #CelebrateCultures in our family. I will share how our family tries to be intentional about celebrating both our family’s cultural heritages as well as other cultures in our home. These are not earth shattering ideas and the categories are all pretty obvious. But hopefully these posts can be helpful as an encouragement of all the ways you can integrate and celebrate cultures.

Below is an outline of the upcoming posts which I will link to once they are up. Hopefully posting this intro motivates/pushes me to actually write these out! As always, I would love to hear about your family and how you integrate your heritage into your daily life!  

Ways We #CelebrateCultures…

  1. … Around the House
  2. … During Meals
  3. … With Language
  4. … During Holidays
  5. … Learning about history and inventions
  6. … During Weddings
  7. … Through Travel